yet again. another update for the dearest hillary. but this one will be a bit more serious. so please read it. I'd appreciate it.
There are a lot of things that I feel people don't say as often as they should therefore I will say them for everyone.
The word love is used too often and over the wrong people. Yes you love your friends, and yes you may love your boyfriend. But you do not love the guy that you saw in the mall, or met at a show and have talked to once since then. You do not love someone you have known for a short time of a week. It is just ridiculous. Love is not a word to mess around with. Don't say it unless you mean it, and when you mean it then you say it. Don't say it because your boyfriend says it first and you feel bad if you don't say it back because it will only prolong his pain and unknowingness of your true feelings. Follow your heart and not your head. Don't get with guys that chose someone else over you and then fall back on you because it didn't work out with the other girl. And guys, don't do that to girls. It hurts us, it really truly does. Girls are quite mean as well, most of us tend to jump from one guy to the next in a matter of weeks, some even days and it is just uncalled for. If you like someone, go after them and no one else. If it works out good for you and if not find someone else. Things will work themselves out even if you think otherwise.
I have come to realize that this world is full ofchaos and I can not do anything to stop it but I can make some people come to their senses and that has to help somehow and in someway. Do not hide behind lies and mask, it will get you no where in this world but hurt more than you ever knew imaginable. Don't get to open with someone, it can come back to bite you in the ass one day but don't be a loner and not talk to anyone at all, that is even worse. Trust is something we give to easily lately. No one has to earn it. You meet someone at a show and you begin spilling out all of your problems and misunderstandings to them from the start. Give it time, the person you give all this free information too might have a huge mouth and get you in trouble some day.
Live life to the fullest. Sitting at home on your computer all day is not life, and I know this true to myself as well. Don't waste your time doing pointless things when you could be out having fun with friends. The opposite sex or even the same sex depending on your preference are not worth all that we let them do to us. When you find someone that is worth all the crap they wont put you through so much of it.
What ever happened to clothes that covered girls stomachs and cleavage? Girls some of you are degrating yourself. You wonder why you get no guys and when you get guys they only want you for sex, look at the clothes you wear and the way you present yourself. Listen to what you say to guys and how it usually only revolves and sex and the things you have done in the past with guys. If you want a good guy that will treat you right act like it and don't act like a bad ass who wears no clothes. Skin is alright to a point but somethings people wear just look so dumb. And i must say it looks good when some people do it but when you do it all for the attention it is just pointless to me. Don't say you can't get a good guy when you don't try to be a good girl. It may attract guys to you but for all of the wrong reasons. Cover yourselves up and have some more dignity. And stop calling yourself fat, you are not fat. I can't stand it when someone tells me "oh Faith you are so skinny" and they call themselves fat two seconds later when they weigh less than I do. Do not lie to yourself to get people to compliment you. I admit I say things about myself but I don't call myself fat and ugly, I may say I feel fat because I just ate a lot, or I like horrid right now. But I know I'm not ugly and I know I'm not fat. Girls get more confidence in yourself for a change. You would get a better guy that way.
Guys, stop being assholes. Do not call a girl hot. I admit some girls may like that but most of us don't. We want to be beautiful, or gorgeous, or pretty. Not hot or sexy. That makes us feel like all you want from us is sex and the relationship we have is meaningless altogether. Treat us with respect and we will treat you the same way. Play rough with us but not so rough that we get hurt and when we say stop, it means that you should stop. Stop telling us you love us just to get in our pants or just because you feel like saying it, it is not a toy. We have feelings and so do you, treat us nicely and you will usually get the same treatment back.
There is so much out there left to explore for all of us, new people and places. You could meet a new best friend one day on your way to work. Get in a car accident and marry the person that totalled your new car. The world has a crazy way of working out but it works out so stop wasting your life saying that you will never find a guy or a girl that is right for you. Go out and do something. Or stay at home and do something. Dance or sing or something. JUST HAVE FUN! Everyone takes things way to seriously and it is so stupid. It is not a big deal if your boyfriend that you knew for a week broke up with you. You will get over it soon, I promise. And if you don't you are a huge drama queen.
That is just some of what I want to say. There is a lot more but I am tired of wasting precious time where I could be doing something productive with my life. I know I need to take my own advice about some of these things as well, and trust me I am starting to. I love all of my friends. You guys inspire me so much.
I edited it so people would understand better what I meant.
